Letting Go Of Your Limiting Beliefs; A True Life Experience

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๐‹๐ž๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐“๐š๐ฅ๐ค ๐€๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ Limiting Beliefs !

๐ด ๐‘ก๐‘œ๐‘๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘š๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ฆ ๐‘œ๐‘“ ๐‘ข๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘๐‘œ๐‘š๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘๐‘ข๐‘ ๐‘ ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘๐‘’๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘ข๐‘ ๐‘’ ๐‘–๐‘ก ๐‘’๐‘ฅ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ค๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘˜๐‘›๐‘’๐‘ ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ ๐‘ ๐‘–๐‘๐‘–๐‘™๐‘–๐‘ก๐‘ฆ ๐‘œ๐‘“ ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘’ โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘š๐‘Ž๐‘˜๐‘’ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘“๐‘“๐‘–๐‘๐‘ข๐‘™๐‘ก ๐‘‘๐‘’๐‘๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘–๐‘œ๐‘› ๐‘œ๐‘“ ๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘๐‘๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘œ๐‘“ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘–๐‘Ÿ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘š๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘ก ๐‘ง๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘’๐‘ .

I actually dislike talking about things like this in the openโ€ฆ

But I just realized its due to a false belief I grew up holding untoโ€ฆ๐—”๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—น ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด.

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๐’๐จ ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐€๐ซ๐ž Limiting Beliefs?

I will help you understand this by sharing a storyโ€ฆ

I was discussing with a friend recently, and he shared with me how he was punished by his dad during his primary school days because he purchased an MP3 using the money he saved from his stipends.

๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ค ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘กโ€™๐‘  ๐‘ค๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘กโ„Ž ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก?

1. The dad couldโ€™ve been concerned that his child preferred a โ€œcommonโ€ MP3 to feeding well at school.

2. Or Maybe his child is no longer taking his studies seriously at school, but prefers playing music with his MP3.

A lot more couldโ€™ve gone wrong..

๐—•๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐— ๐—ฃ๐Ÿฏ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ โ‚ฆ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ๐Ÿฌ ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น.

But the dad never believed a child of his age can be wise enough to save money to invest in anything at all.The boy was just 7 years oldโ€ฆ

So for the dad, the child could have โ€œฬตsฬตtฬตoฬตlฬตeฬตnฬตโ€ฬต the money to satisfy his cravings for an MP3.

๐‘บ๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’‡๐’“๐’Š๐’†๐’๐’… ๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’†๐’“๐’‚๐’๐’๐’š ๐’•๐’๐’๐’… ๐’Ž๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’‰๐’† ๐’ˆ๐’“๐’†๐’˜ ๐’–๐’‘ ๐’Š๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’†๐’๐’—๐’Š๐’“๐’๐’๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’• ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’๐’Š๐’†๐’—๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’“๐’Š๐’„๐’‰ ๐’‘๐’†๐’๐’‘๐’๐’† ๐’Ž๐’–๐’”๐’• ๐’‰๐’‚๐’—๐’† ๐’•๐’‚๐’Œ๐’†๐’ ๐’‘๐’‚๐’“๐’• ๐’Š๐’ ๐’๐’๐’† ๐’๐’“ ๐’Ž๐’๐’“๐’† ๐’†๐’—๐’Š๐’ ๐’‚๐’„๐’•๐’” ๐’•๐’ ๐’ˆ๐’†๐’• ๐’“๐’Š๐’„๐’‰.

๐น๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ โ„Ž๐‘–๐‘š, ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘’ ๐‘‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘Ž ๐‘“๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘ โ„Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ, โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘  ๐‘Ž ๐‘”๐‘œ๐‘œ๐‘‘ ๐‘โ„Ž๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘’ ๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘ก๐‘œ๐‘ ๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘™, ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘’ ๐‘’๐‘›๐‘”๐‘Ž๐‘”๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘–๐‘› ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘๐‘  ๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ÿ๐‘ข๐‘๐‘ก, ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘Ž ๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ก ๐‘œ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ .

This continued till his 20โ€™s and of course, he was uncomfortable about his current mindset and overall situation.๐˜‰๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ง๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ๐˜ข๐˜บ.

To summarize,

โ€œLimiting Beliefs ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐ฌ, ๐จ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐›๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐š๐›๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ž ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ญ๐กโ€. They tend to have a negative impact on oneโ€™s life by stopping them from moving forward and growing on a personal and professional level.

Limiting Beliefs ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘๐‘ข๐‘š๐‘ข๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘“๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘š ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘“๐‘–๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘ก ๐‘‘๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘Ž ๐‘โ„Ž๐‘–๐‘™๐‘‘ ๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘›, โ„Ž๐‘–๐‘ /โ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐‘’๐‘ฅ๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘’๐‘›๐‘๐‘’๐‘ , ๐‘’๐‘›๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘š๐‘’๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘  ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘๐‘™๐‘ข๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘“๐‘Ž๐‘š๐‘–๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘“๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘’๐‘›๐‘‘๐‘ .


In my case, one of the limiting beliefs I grew up with is that talking about your achievements or posting them online is showing offโ€ฆbut I have grown past this oneโ€ฆlol

๐Ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐„๐ฑ๐š๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ ๐จ๐Ÿ Limiting Beliefs ๐ˆ๐ง๐œ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ž:

1. Believing that your current situation is your parentโ€™s fault or someone elseโ€™s fault.

2. Thinking that every opportunity you see online is after your money, even if itโ€™s free

3. Believing in luck, omens, and other superstitions as the determinant of your success

4. Believing you are not worthy enough, etc.

๐’๐จ ๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐ƒ๐จ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐†๐ž๐ญ ๐‘๐ข๐ ๐Ž๐Ÿ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐‹๐ข๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฌ?

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Letting go of limiting beliefs

It is important first to find out what your limiting beliefs are! {No One can do this for you}โ€ฆthen;

1. ๐•ฝ๐–Š๐–ˆ๐–”๐–Œ๐–“๐–Ž๐–Ÿ๐–Š ๐–†๐–“๐–‰ ๐–†๐–ˆ๐–ˆ๐–Š๐–•๐–™ ๐–Ž๐–™ ๐–Ž๐–˜ ๐–† ๐–‘๐–Ž๐–’๐–Ž๐–™๐–Ž๐–“๐–Œ ๐–‡๐–Š๐–‘๐–Ž๐–Š๐–‹โ€ฆ ๐•ฟ๐–๐–Ž๐–˜ ๐–†๐–‘๐–”๐–“๐–Š ๐–œ๐–Ž๐–‘๐–‘ ๐–”๐–•๐–Š๐–“ ๐–ž๐–”๐–š๐–— ๐–‰๐–”๐–”๐–—๐–˜ ๐–‹๐–”๐–— ๐–Ž๐–’๐–•๐–—๐–”๐–›๐–Š๐–’๐–Š๐–“๐–™.

2. ๐•ท๐–Š๐–™ ๐–Œ๐–” ๐–”๐–‹ ๐–†๐–‘๐–‘ ๐–ž๐–”๐–š๐–— ๐–‘๐–Ž๐–’๐–Ž๐–™๐–Ž๐–“๐–Œ ๐–‡๐–Š๐–‘๐–Ž๐–Š๐–‹๐–˜โ€ฆ๐–‡๐–š๐–™ ๐–—๐–Š๐–’๐–Š๐–’๐–‡๐–Š๐–— ๐–ž๐–”๐–š ๐–”๐–“๐–‘๐–ž ๐–‘๐–Š๐–™ ๐–Œ๐–”, ๐–ž๐–”๐–š ๐–‰๐–”๐–“๐–™ ๐–‹๐–Ž๐–Œ๐–๐–™ ๐–™๐–๐–Š๐–’.

3. ๐•ฟ๐–” ๐–˜๐–š๐–ˆ๐–ˆ๐–Š๐–˜๐–˜๐–‹๐–š๐–‘๐–‘๐–ž ๐–‘๐–Š๐–™ ๐–Œ๐–”, ๐–ž๐–”๐–š ๐–“๐–Š๐–Š๐–‰ ๐–™๐–” ๐–‹๐–Ž๐–‘๐–‘ ๐–š๐–• ๐–™๐–๐–Š ๐–›๐–†๐–ˆ๐–†๐–“๐–™ ๐–˜๐–•๐–†๐–ˆ๐–Š๐–˜ ๐–™๐–๐–Š ๐–‡๐–ž๐–Œ๐–”๐–“๐–Š ๐–‘๐–Ž๐–’๐–Ž๐–™๐–Ž๐–“๐–Œ ๐–‡๐–Š๐–‘๐–Ž๐–Š๐–‹ ๐–๐–†๐–˜ ๐–ˆ๐–—๐–Š๐–†๐–™๐–Š๐–‰ ๐–Ž๐–“ ๐–ž๐–”๐–š๐–— ๐–’๐–Ž๐–“๐–‰.

4. ๐–„๐–”๐–š ๐–‹๐–Ž๐–‘๐–‘ ๐–š๐–• ๐–™๐–๐–Š๐–˜๐–Š ๐–›๐–†๐–ˆ๐–†๐–“๐–™ ๐–˜๐–•๐–†๐–ˆ๐–Š๐–˜ ๐–‡๐–ž;

  • -๐‘…๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘œ๐‘˜๐‘  ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘–๐‘› ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘‘๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘กโ„Ž ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘›๐‘’๐‘ค ๐‘š๐‘–๐‘›๐‘‘๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ก ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘ข๐‘™๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘ฃ๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘’ (๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘ โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘š๐‘’ ๐‘ ๐‘œ๐‘š๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐‘‘๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ)- ๐ฟ๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘›๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘‘๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘  ๐‘–๐‘› ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ฃ๐‘’
  • โ€“ ๐ฟ๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘›๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ ๐‘–๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘“๐‘“๐‘–๐‘Ÿ๐‘š๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘ .

5. ๐•ญ๐–Š๐–Ž๐–“๐–Œ ๐–ˆ๐–”๐–“๐–˜๐–Ž๐–˜๐–™๐–Š๐–“๐–™ ๐–Ž๐–“ ๐–ˆ๐–†๐–—๐–—๐–ž๐–Ž๐–“๐–Œ ๐–”๐–š๐–™ ๐–†๐–‘๐–‘ ๐–™๐–๐–Š ๐–†๐–‡๐–”๐–›๐–Š ๐–™๐–†๐–˜๐–๐–˜ ๐–™๐–Ž๐–‘๐–‘ ๐–Ž๐–™ ๐–‡๐–Š๐–ˆ๐–”๐–’๐–Š๐–˜ ๐–•๐–†๐–—๐–™ ๐–”๐–‹ ๐–ž๐–”๐–š.

Yeah ๐Ÿ˜… Itโ€™s a real hustle!

But I am working hard to release all my limiting beliefs.

At the moment, I listen to daily affirmations from Purify App to help me feel positive dailyโ€ฆAnd if you would like to get it, I included the link in the email you will receive after you signup to receive the free E-book on this website.

See you on the other side! โค๏ธ

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